You can ask very specific questions and
get an answer. It is also a good idea, from time to time, to ask
broad questions, such as “What is your will for me?” or
“What should I do differently in my life?”
Be careful not to fall into the trap of
imagining that God is confirming your own ideas and preferences. We
are all fallen sinners, so we all have the tendency to think that our
own understanding or goals are perhaps better than they are in God’s
eyes. If God is telling you to keep doing what you are doing, and not
to make any changes, and He really seems to have no criticisms or
suggestions for improvement, then you are not doing this correctly.
That would be just your own selfishness, not the providence and grace
of God.
If it is not working for you, try to be
more alert to hints from God in events that happen as you go through
your day. If it still does not work, then add self-denial to prayer.
And make certain that you regularly examine your conscience and go to
Confession and Communion, if this is possible.
Be advised that it is easy to
misinterpret what God is saying through enlightenment, providence and grace. So do
not make any major decisions on this basis, and do not do anything
risky. It is also always advisable to have someone to consult in spiritual matters, such as a spiritual guide. And you must ALWAYS put the teachings of the Church on faith,
morals, and salvation, and anything clear to reason, above that God
seems to be saying in this way.
It is important
to follow the points above, to be in a state of grace (or at least, to desire betterment), sincere in
prayer, and patient. The signs may show up in unexpected places but
when they occur it will immediately be evident that they are the
result of prayer.
Another way to do this is ask God a
question before praying one of the hours of the Liturgy of Hours (or before any prayer). For
big questions about vocations and the like, one of the best things to
do is an Ignatian Spiritual retreat that uses the Spiritual Exercises
of St. Ignatius of Loyola.
Prayer for God's Providence
Providence
of God, have mercy on me!
Most
Precious Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Adorable
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Admirable
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Loving
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Most
Holy Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Sanctifying
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Treasured
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Testing
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Penetrating
Providence of God, have mercy on me!
Providence
of God, You have provided for me, have mercy on me!
Providence
of God, You will provide for me, have mercy on me!
Prayer for My Vocation in Life
Behold
me at thy feet, O Virgin most kind, seeking to obtain through thee,
the most important grace of knowing what I ought to do. I desire
nothing but to comply perfectly with the Will of thy Divine Son at
every moment of my life. Mother of Good Counsel, let me hear thy
voice. It will dispel every doubt that troubles my mind.
I trust in thee, being confident that, since thou art the Mother of my Redeemer, thou wilt also be the Mother of my salvation. If thou, O Mary, wilt not send me a ray of the Divine Sun, what light will enlighten me? Who will direct me if thou refusest, who art the Mother of the uncreated Wisdom!
Listen, then, to my humble prayers. Let me not be lost in my uncertainty and instability; lead me along the straight road that ends in life everlasting, Thou, who art my only hope, and whose hands are full of the riches of virtue and of life, and who dispensest the fruits of honor and holiness. Amen.
I trust in thee, being confident that, since thou art the Mother of my Redeemer, thou wilt also be the Mother of my salvation. If thou, O Mary, wilt not send me a ray of the Divine Sun, what light will enlighten me? Who will direct me if thou refusest, who art the Mother of the uncreated Wisdom!
Listen, then, to my humble prayers. Let me not be lost in my uncertainty and instability; lead me along the straight road that ends in life everlasting, Thou, who art my only hope, and whose hands are full of the riches of virtue and of life, and who dispensest the fruits of honor and holiness. Amen.